RE: Ideal Perspective...

I took a training course at work called "Crucial Conversations" (based on the book of the same name) about how to carry out critical conversations effectively. I think some of the principles I learned there are applicable here.

If you break down relationships in search of peace (whether interpersonally or internationally), a large factor is (perhaps obviously) whether or not those involved feel safe. When both parties feel safe, then they engage in healthy dialogue. They may not always agree, but they are at least in a place where they can communicate and come up with effective solutions. When people don't feel safe, they engage in either "silence or violence." These prevent healthy dialogue and, therefore, effective solutions.

There is a lot more to it, but I'll forgo the details for now and just say I think this is one of President Bush's biggest weaknesses: The ability to communicate with people (and nations) in a way that helps them feel safe.

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